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pinay8utterfly March 11th, 2012 07:41 PM

i just started today. bf makes me feel fat.
i understand that there are alot of people out there that are trying to lose a couple lbs. Me, on the other hand, am trying to lose a boatload of lbs 50 hoping anyways.

So today while me and my boyfriend were walking around the mall he just suddenly stops outa nowhere and whispers, "Suck in your belly... you should go to Lane Bryant"....

First off don't get me wrong lane bryant is a wonderful store to shop at... If i were tall and had really attractive curves. Although, i am only 5'0 and at 194 lbs i don't think that me shopping there would have a good impression on my self esteem. I am very short and wish i was more petite. Hearing commments from my bf like those are starting to make me depressed ( even though i know that he's kidding it really does hurt me. I deeply wanted to just wanted to run down the aisles and start crying but instead i told him that as soon as he and I got home i would be eating all the food in the house since i can only lose 1 lb a month.)

Depression is starting to get the best of me.

I don't want this feeling to stick around any longer...

So, if there is anyone out there willing enough to say, "hi " like even once a day, it would be greatly appreciated. I go to the gym, eat healthy for the most part, i just want to be happy.

thanks for reading my thread.

-fat girl

shannikitty March 19th, 2012 08:13 AM

Hello, I'm really sorry you are feeling down. I am much heavier than you but I understand how feeling depressed can be damaging to your health. It's great that you are here doing something about it!

Maybe tell your boyfriend how his joking makes you feel worse and how you are trying to take better care of yourself.

You may reach out to me if you want to talk.

esther212 March 24th, 2012 01:44 PM

I am sorry your bf makes you feel fat. Our men could do a lot to help us feel good about ourselves and even help us lose weight by his positive support. We as women want to please our man naturally, and if a man understood that his approval makes our quest to be beautiful for him easier, they would be more supportive.

shazzar68 April 12th, 2012 10:20 PM

Hi pinay8utterfly

Did you find your banana buddy? Buddying up is the reason why Weight Watchers has success. It holds you accountable.
5.5" (okay 5.4 and a half) and 246 pounds (already lost 2.3 kilos my first week)

Even fatter girl

havocshui April 30th, 2012 06:01 AM

Are you still looking for a diet buddy? I am :D
And I already started today~
I hope this works :)

jessc November 16th, 2012 03:24 AM

New in town
Hi there, Im looking for Diet buddy too, I've only started today with the banana diet- but have been trying to diet since Monday- been eating fruit for breakfast like guava and strawberries, then tiny lunch and also smaller dinner - been drinking water like its going out of fashion! lol! I have to shift some weight, need to loose 59 pounds!!!!!!
Depression has set me 20 pounds heavier in 3 months and now ive just had enough!!!
So please dont feel fat- I AM fat! lol! but thats why we have to stick together and help each other! :-)

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